Finding Your Squad: Building Friendships That Lift You Up

High school can feel like a social maze. Between cliques, drama, and trying to fit in, finding true friends who get you is tough but so worth it. The Stone Path Project’s Social Pillar is all about building connections that make your journey easier and more fun. Here’s how to find your squad and keep them tight.

Step 1: Be Your Awesome Self
You don’t need to change to find your people. Love gaming? Obsessed with art? Own it! Join a club or online community where your passions shine. Mia, a shy sophomore, joined the anime club and found friends who made lunch periods the highlight of her day.

Step 2: Start Small, Stay Real
You don’t need a huge crew. One or two solid friends can make all the difference. Strike up a convo in class or compliment someone’s style. Small moments, like chatting about a band you both like, can spark a bond. Keep it genuine—no need to fake it.

Step 3: Navigate the Drama
High school’s full of gossip and peer pressure. Set boundaries with friends who drag you down. If someone’s always negative, it’s okay to pull back. Focus on people who lift you up, like the friend who cheers you on before a big presentation.

Step 4: Show Up for Your Squad
Friendships are a two-way street. Text to check in, celebrate their wins, or just listen when they’re stressed. Little things—like grabbing coffee or helping with homework—build trust. One teen, Jay, said planning a group hike with his buddies turned them into a tight-knit crew.

Your squad doesn’t have to be perfect, but they should make you feel seen and supported. Try one new way to connect this week, like joining a team or chatting with someone new. Your high school journey’s better with friends who’ve got your back.

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Written by Madison Stone.

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